I heard from a wife who said: “I just found out that my husband is having yet another affair. The last time I caught him, he swore he’d never look at another woman, and, like a fool, I believed him. And yet, here we are not even a year later and we’re going through this nonsense again. Clearly, he was lying all along. And clearly, those words he said and promises he made didn’t mean a thing. I want him to know how it feels to be in love with a liar and a cheat. I’m considering having my own affair and admitting it right to his face. If I did, would he stop his cheating? Would making him see how much this hurts scare him straight?” It’s impossible for me to predict the future and guess as to how the husband might react to his wife’s revenge affair. But I can tell you that, in my opinion and experience, this is almost never a good idea. I will tell you why below.
How to End an Affair Discreetly
Affairs with married women and married men are dangerous on many levels. Often when the time comes to end an affair, one of the parties has to take the first courageous step. What is the best way to go about ending an affair discretely?
Tips On Making Things Up To Your Spouse After You Cheated Or Had An Affair
I recently heard from a husband who said: “I made the huge mistake of cheating on my wife with my secretary. I know, what a cliche right? This devastated my wife. It hurts me so much to even look at my wife sometimes. Because this woman who used to be so loving and so confident has completely changed. There’s wounded look in her eyes and she looks at every one with mistrust. I feel like I’ve changed who she is and have altered those things that I loved about her to begin with. I so want to make this up to her. I want to show her that if she will just give me a chance, I will never hurt her again and be the best husband she could possibly ask for. But she isn’t always receptive to me and she certainly doesn’t trust me. So how do I even begin to make this up to her?” I’ll try to answer these questions in the following article.